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The Retiree’s Best Friend

There is an old saying in Washington: If you want a friend get yourself a dog. As a lifelong dog person, I certainly agree with the gist of this saying. Most dogs are the epitome of unconditional love. They like you because it seems to be built into their DNA. They want to be with you and they want to follow you where ever you plan to go. It also turns out that a retiree makes a good master for a dog, because you have more time available and you have more time flexibility.

 

My day begins about 5:30 am when my dog and I leave the house for a walk. If  I happen to sleep in past 6, which doesn’t happen very often, the dog comes over and gives me a nudge. She looks forward to her walks and she doesn’t plan on missing any. Because it is usually still dark when we leave the house, we have gotten in the habit of walking along lighted streets, bike paths and around parking lots.

 

Dogs are well known for loving to ride in the car, this is certainly true of my dog. I don’t let my dog stick her head out the window in the classic mode. But I do let her ride in the front seat with a seat belt fastened through her harness. She gives the impression of liking to look around at scenery and traffic. When a car pulls up next to us she has a snooty way of looking down her nose at the driver in the car next to us a traffic light. I may get a tape to play at these times that says, “excuse me but do you have any Grey Pompon”.

 

She also likes to bark or growl at dogs she sees getting their morning walks. It is like she thinks she has the right of way and that other dogs shouldn’t be allowed to be there when she is passing. My dog is also especially prejudice against small white poodles. They make her especially angry, it could be that she was orphaned when her previous owner replaced her with a white poodle. I don’t know its is just a theory. This is another intriguing property of dogs they have a secret past and they don’t bore you with the details they let you makeup something that you find appealing.

 

Our morning trips have allowed us to explore a great part of our town that we normally don’t visit. It allows us to keep track of what is going on in terms of new construction or new businesses. Basically my snooping instincts and my dogs sniffing instincts are highly compatible. I have also considered the possibility that I might come across the missing WMD. After all why should terrorist hide WMD in Iraq or somewhere else in the middle east; the logical place to hide them would be someplace in the vicinity of Washington, DC..

 

Early in the morning is also a good time to run certain errands like buying stamps at the Post Office or going to the grocery store to pickup a few items. When you are at the store shortly after opening you can buy bagels just after they come out of the oven. The dog of course wants to make sure that I remember to buy dog food and dog treats. It can also be a good time to stop by the local gasoline station and fill up the tank and check the oil. There are no lines and little traffic early in the morning, so it is probably the safest time for driving.

 

After our walk we come home for breakfast. The dog also remembers that she eats at this time and she won’t let me forget to feed her. So we eat our breakfast, read the newspaper and then head out to the gym. The dog usually goes along if the temperature is moderate and waits for us in the car. She likes to watch people come and go from the gym part of the time she is waiting, but frequently she will take a short nap.

 

After exercising for about an hour we either go back home to do a little yard work or in the summer we will head out to the garden for about an hour. While I am working in the garden the dog is tied on a long line to the garden fence. She likes to bark at people walking by or people coming and going from the garden. I’m certain that she thinks she is protecting me from the evil forces of the world. And apparently doing a very good job. If we go to the garden in the afternoon we will sometimes take our walk around the boundary of the golf course. The last few years I’ve found on the average at least one golf ball every time we have walked the boundary. Some of these golf balls are worth $4.50 and I have found a couple hundred. This could be a good part-time job. It reminds of when I was a kid we lived next to a golf course and I made money reselling used golf balls.

 

After lunch I take the dog for another walk. In the winter the afternoon walk is usually longer because it is warmer. The reverse is true in the summer when we take a longer walk early in the morning to avoid the high afternoon temperatures. Usually we get back home before my wife’s violin students start to arrive. One of my dogs other responsibilities is to bark at the students as them come and go from their lesson. It allows my wife to judge when she needs to wrap up a lesson.

 

As you can see a dog adds companionship and structure to your retirement. But a dog isn’t right for everyone. Some people like cats, they enjoy being look down on. Or Winston Churchill who preferred pigs because it said the cat treated him as an inferior and dogs treated him like a god; and only pigs would treat him like an equal.

 

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